I have always like to think of myself as efficient, able to get many things done at one time and hopefully do it well. I thought I was efficient at my school work, my job and even my home life. At some times you might even say I became obsessed with it, always trying to do multiple things at once and hoping they all turn out.
In 1997
I learned that not only could I do multiple things at one time but that that would become my norm. When blessed with four children,two and under, we've learned that doing everything at once would be our way of life.
Fast-forward fourteen years. I love February: We begin celebrating birthdays with not only one cake but in mass production. WE usually have some form of cheese cake, a chocolate creations, and then of course two other decadent cakes or maybe a pie. The kids try to find something different than their siblings which means dessert heaven for all of us. Parker's request this year is Berry Cheesecake. Sisters are still undecided. They would love a creation from their cousin Sarah but since she is 700+ miles away we'll have to improvise.
Parker is turning 16 this year. He will be ordained a priest that following Sunday. My heart fills with joy as I look at what a fine young man he has grown up to be. He currently measures in at 5"10' and sometimes Bruce even feels like he is looking up to him.
Bailey, Hannah and Sidney will be 14. Oh how fast the time has flown (i need to come up with a new phrase) They are such beautiful young women that is why I am anxious that they will be able to attend church dances...Hopefully Parker will stay close and be their body guard.
They are all becoming great friends and it warms my heart to see them interact. I am trying to enjoy every minute since the empty-nester stage is approaching at speeds that I cannot control. I remember when people would comment that they wanted to freeze time and just be able to enjoy this time of their life. I now know what they mean and find all too often that that is my one wish and desire.
I found a quote that President Uchtdorf said in Nov. 2010 conference and it has become one of my favorite, "There is a beauty and clarity which comes from simplicity that we sometimes do not appreciate in our thirst for intricate solutions." I have learned to simplify my life and then commit to what remains. I am learning that it doesn't have to be hard.
Life is good:)
7 comments:
it blows my mind that soooo much time has gone by! i remember turning 16! parker was just a few months old. he sent me a rose in math class...remember?! it made my day.
i think we all try to rush time sometimes. if only this, or that, or this...bottom line, enjoy the moment!
i really wish i were there to share in all the decadent desserts! maybe i'll have to make some in honor of some of my favorite kids (teens!).
i LOVE that picture of parker. those rolls were priceless!
I loved that post Natalie! I want to live by you so I can just listen to your wisdom and be just like you. :)
Really.
Parker is such a great boy! I am so impressed by him everytime I get to see him. And you're girls will definately need gaurding.
Parker, Bailey, Hannah, and Sid....the first kids I truly loved!
I agree with Amie, I love listening to your wisdom. You are one that always has a helpful and positive word! And the Parker picture... I know I've seen it before, but it still cracks me up. MIss you!
Happy Birthday Spratling Crew! We love you!
Oh how I miss you! Amen to this great post. One thing is life doesn't have to be hard, but when it is rest assured the "We can do hard things!" Miss our weekly pool and piano times. You are always an inspiration to me.
Oh how I miss you! Amen to this great post. One thing is life doesn't have to be hard, but when it is rest assured the "We can do hard things!" Miss our weekly pool and piano times. You are always an inspiration to me.
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